
This past Thursday men from our church and I volunteered to lead a worship service and Bible study in the chapel at Tomoka Correctional Institute. This service was about relationships with other believers in the church. The inmates who come to chapel service are mostly believers in Christ Jesus. They are the Church of Tomoka.
Relationships often reveal our hearts. How we spend our time with our relationships shows and how we treat them reveal our priorities. Some of the most important relationships you will have are in your local church. While relationships are important, people often see their relationships as different. Perhaps they have different ideas, culture, and of course personalities. Despite different people and different personalities the church is a family, the family of God.
The Scripture says, “Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind” (1 Peter 3:8). Does this sound easy for a man who lives in a prison with 1,500 other inmates? Well the church of Tomoka testified about that in our time of study.
The testimonies from the men in chapel this past Thursday regarding 1 Peter 3:8 pertained mostly to brotherly love. Prison is a place where showing compassion, kindness and humility can often be interpreted as weak. But the church of Tomoka seeks to break those stereotypes with their faith in Jesus Christ.
These Christian inmates explained that when they sit down to eat a meal with each other, when they conduct Bible studies in their dorms and cells, when they have prayer meetings, and worship studies they are a family. Despite their different areas of education, language, and culture they are a family in Christ. Their relationships matter out of brotherly love only because of the love of Christ who resides within them.
Prison is a place that tells you to hold on to whatever you have: food, clothes, money, power, etc. But showing brotherly love costs more, yet it reaps the most. One of the inmates showed us how he carries small packs of instant coffee. He passes it out to show brotherly love not only to his Christian inmates but all inmates. How can you show brotherly love to fellow believers in Christ? You may not have coffee packs, but you can give of yourself. Let brotherly love be your best form of relationships under the watchful eye of the Lord, “For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous…” (1 Peter 3:12a).

